Ex-Relationships

Every girl i know has a problem with ex-girlfriends in a relationship, whether its because they are still hanging around like garden flies over your BBQ, or if they 'still talk'; the ex-girlfriend is a NO GO area for us females.

To sum things up in as simple form as i can think of; Women and Ex-partners should never be in the same conversation; let alone the same room.
If we end up in the same room, we are not responsible for our actions against one-another's faces.

My Story: 
I over react hugely against responses and conversations about ex-girlfriends, always have, and always will. This reason is that every ex-partner has either dumped me for their ex again, or gone straight back to them afterward. 
When a man tells another woman about their ex-partners, it gets you thinking; Firstly, why is he talking about it TO ANOTHER PERSON? Second, does he still think about them? Thirdly, Does he not realise IM STANDING RIGHT NEXT TO HIM??????
When your boyfriend talks to another lady about their ex's and how they had children that he loved playing with; this is on another level.
What if he feels like he has come out of this 'family relationship' to a 18 year old girl still in college?

Yeah he is a few years older, but not many.


He spoke so openly about it in front of me to another person, i didn't know whether to laugh or cry. I knew about the ex partner, but the fact of telling someone else in front of me was out of league.


Well, in the end i confronted him about how un necessary it was to tell this person about his previous relationship in front of me, and... yeah he was sweet about the whole situation, not realising i felt this way and apologising to me; telling me i was the only one for him, she didn't mean anything to him and that he is happy in this relationship with me, and that he couldn't be with anyone else. 


But, yeah it hurts, but girls, ex's really aren't something to get worked up about; they've been and gone in his life; and they have GONE for a reason.