So, been a long time since I've written a blog on here, and it's simply because nothing wrong has gone on in my life!! I've been too happy!!!
But there is one thing that has really annoyed me the past week.
I hate the way that some men think that they can get away with talking to women like crap.
My Story:
I was shopping with my friend Sarah in the supermarket the other day, when we saw her boyfriend Tyler and his friend Chris. They were chatting about things that had happened to them during the day, and i then walked off to get some juice. Seconds later i heard Sarah shout 'WHAT did you just say?" towards Chris; then to my horror i see Sarah storming towards me in a cage of fury mumbling "Rose, Lets leave... NOW."
I then asked her what was said what made her so angry... and what i heard was to surprise even me!
I've never heard such up front blunt rudeness in my life; and the fact that Tyler didn't even stand up for Sarah made this even worse!!!!
Out of nowhere, Chris had decided to tell Sarah that she looks Pregnant, when he fully well knows that this is impossible as she has the implant and he has previously felt it!!
I couldn't believe my ears when I'd heard what Chris said to Sarah! This made me so angry, and the fact that Tyler hadn't even said anything like "Oh, dude, don't say that about my girlfriend, that's well out of order?.. Say sorry." But no,... he just stood there. I didn't know what to say? Should i say something to Tyler? I decided that it would be much easier to bitch about them both to Sarah in her apartment.
So in the end; a lot of texts were sent back and forth and a Rose was given out to Sarah in an apologetic manor, and all was in the end forgiven; but my feelings towards men who just blurt things out like that has really deteriorated... Not that there was anything there to start with.
My message:
Girls, please don't take any shit from men who decide to talk to you like you just fell off of the bottom of their shoe. You're really worth a lot more than that, and if they can't see that you deserve to be treated better, and talked to better, then you need to get them out of your life as soon as possible, because they are really going to make your life hell.
As women, we naturally have a very low self esteem, but we don't need men saying snide remarks, and making it even lower.
So my message to you is, don't take any shit from anyone, be it a man or a woman, if they decide to put you down. They do it to get a reaction usually, and they really aren't worth your breath or time. Tell them where to stick it and walk away.... preferably don't ever talk to them again if they think they can get away with putting you down!!!
